What was I doing? My hips were out of control, arching to meet his hand, daring him to delve between my naked legs. Worse still, Jack, my husband, lay on the massage table alongside with no idea what was going on. We live there, but make a point of visiting China once a year. While there, we always treat ourselves to a day in the spa, which is where I lay naked alongside my husband while the masseuse had every nerve between my legs pulsating in anticipation. As his hot fingers danced across my naked flesh I felt like I was hypnotised.
The Chinese were the first to figure this out , more than 3, years ago, when they realized that men could have multiple full-body orgasms by withholding ejaculation. These days, though, most of us are focused on a singular goal: getting off. Not so in multiple orgasms — the pleasure stays with me throughout the day. Now I can have as much sex as I want and can control it rather than have it control me. The medical term for such a non-release release is nonenjaculatory multiple orgasm, or NEMO. Back to that all-day orgasm, though. How do we get one of those?
Multiple Orgasms for Men Are All About Pelvic Floor Control
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Everyone would love to have multiple orgasms, but that pesky refractory period tends to get in the way. It turns out, there is a way for guys to climax more than once in a row—it just takes some practice. The first thing you need to know?